Life's Journey ~ A Story of Relationship and Growth

We go through countless encounters. Among them, there are wonderful relationships that enrich our lives, such as heartwarming friendships, passionate romances, and business partnerships that enhance each other, but unfortunately, there are also "bad relationships" that give negative energy to our minds and bodies and hinder our growth. These "bad connections" sometimes lurk in our lives so cleverly that it is difficult to notice their existence. However, we always have the potential to move towards a better future, and for this reason, it is essential to first understand the impact of "bad relationships" and be aware of the signs of liberation from them.

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In this article, we take a deep dive into the specific effects of "bad relationships" and the four key precursors that emerge when we break free from them. In addition, after noticing these signs, we will explain in detail how to make a fresh start and guide you to a more fulfilling life. We hope this article will help you to deepen your self-understanding and build more positive relationships.

1. What is a bad relationship? Its multifaceted aspects and why you should pay attention

A "bad relationship" is a relationship that goes beyond simply being a mismatch in personality or has different values, and has a lasting negative impact on your mind and life. This "negative impact" is wide-ranging, and includes the following examples.

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Mental exhaustion: A relationship that significantly consumes mental energy, such as having to constantly worry about the other person's mood, having to keep listening to the other person's complaints and complaints, or having a significant decrease in self-esteem due to the other person's words and actions.

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Relationships in which people lose the motivation to try new things or believe in their own potential due to inhibition of self-growth and criticism or negative evaluation from others.

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Promoting dependency – Relationships in which one person becomes overly dependent on the other and hinders self-reliance. This can lead to a loss of self-determination and independence.

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Physical effects: Relationships in which constant stress can cause physical disorders such as insomnia, loss of appetite, headaches, and indigestion.

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Relationships in which financial exploitation, financial demands, waste, or economic exploitation are compelled or exploited.

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Social isolation - Relationships in which the other person's jealousy or restraint restricts interaction with other friends and family, resulting in social isolation.

These effects can sometimes be compounded and develop gradually. As a result, it is not uncommon for people to be late in noticing "bad connections". Particular attention should be paid to the following cases:

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"Bad Relationships" in Intimate Relationships "Bad Relationships" lurk not only in close relationships such as lovers and friends, but also in deeply rooted relationships such as family, relatives, and parent-child relationships. Due to the stereotype of "because we are close" and the sense of responsibility "because we are relatives," it may be difficult to realize that the relationship is unhealthy for us.

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Cleverly hidden "bad relationships" There are cases where the person who appears to be a "good person" at first glance is actually dominating or trying to take advantage of you. In these cases, it can be difficult for them to realize that they are being taken advantage of because they are clever and try to control you.

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"Bad relationships" can erode our minds and bodies and limit our possibilities in life. Therefore, noticing and freeing ourselves from "bad relationships" is a very important step in helping us live happier and more fulfilling lives.

2. 4 precursors of bad luck ~ Psychological changes and specific signs

Liberation from "bad luck" does not always happen as a dramatic event. Often it progresses gradually and without being noticed. However, in the process, peculiar changes may appear in our minds and behaviors. In the following, we will explain in more detail the four most common omen.

2.1. Feelings of irritation and anger fade ~ Signs of change of heart and liberation

If you used to react violently to the other person's words and actions, and feel frustrated or angry, but those feelings gradually fade, it may be a sign that the "bad relationship" is coming to an end. This suggests that our subconscious mind is beginning to prepare to "let go" of the relationship with that person.

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Slowing down of emotional reactions・ In the past, I was hypersensitive to the trivial words and actions of the other person, but gradually I can lightly accept it as "it's normal again."

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A sign of apathy: Even if you listen to the other person's complaints and complaints, you will not be depressed or exhausted like before.

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Convergence of emotional waves・ In the past, emotions were violently shaken by the words and actions of the other person, but gradually the waves of emotions become calmer and you can maintain calm.

This change isn't just about getting used to it. It signifies an important change of heart that you are ready to break free from the relationship. A sluggish emotional response indicates that you are no longer swayed by the other person's emotions and are now able to maintain your inner peace.

2.2. The feeling of "it's okay without this person" is born, independence is born, and self-esteem is restored.

While we are in a "bad relationship," we tend to depend on and cling to that person's existence. However, as the relationship draws to a close, a strong sense of independence begins to develop: "I'm okay without this person."

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Decrease in dependency ・ Before, you needed the help and approval of others, but gradually you will feel confident that you can do it yourself.

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Restoration of self-esteem ・ Self-esteem that has been lost due to criticism and negative evaluation from others is restored, and you will be able to reaffirm your own value.

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Establishment of independence ・ Previously, you used to follow the opinions and decisions of others, but gradually you will be able to have your own opinions and make decisions on your own.

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The emergence of new goals and the energy that has been attached to the relationship with the other person are released, and the motivation to act toward one's goals and dreams arises.

This change indicates that you are ready to break free from the relationship and take on the life on your own. Growing independence and restoring self-esteem are important energies that will guide you to the next stage.

2.3. You won't be able to understand the other person's feelings ~ Misalignment of values and changes in relationships

If you used to be able to understand the other person's thoughts and feelings, but gradually you feel that you don't understand why they say such things or why they act the way they do, it may be a sign that the gap in values and ways of thinking between you and the other person is growing.

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Lack of empathy: You used to be able to empathize with what the other person is saying, but gradually you feel that it doesn't matter or you can't understand the other person's feelings.

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Inconsistencies in conversations: Conversations that used to go smoothly gradually become inconsistent and prone to misunderstandings.

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Manifestation of differences in values・ Values that were previously shared gradually become clearer, and the number of incompatible parts increases.

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Increased sense of discomfort ・ You will feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable with the words and actions of the other person that you did not feel before.

This change suggests that you and the other person are starting to take different paths. Misalignment of values and ways of thinking can lead to changes in relationships and lead to their demise.

2.4. Timing and actions do not match at all ~ Expansion of physical and psychological distance

If you used to keep in touch frequently or had many opportunities to see each other, but gradually you tend to lose contact with the other person or find it difficult to decide on a meeting schedule, it may be a sign that a "bad relationship" is coming to an end.

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Decrease in the frequency of contact: In the past, we used to keep in touch frequently, but gradually the frequency of contact decreases and replies are delayed.

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Discrepancies in schedules・Meetings that used to be decided smoothly are often difficult to decide or canceled at the last minute.

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Misalignment of sense of time・ The sense of time with the other person is off, and the schedule does not match each other, such as being late for an appointment or the other person suddenly changing their schedule.

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Psychological distance: Even if you meet someone, you won't be able to enjoy them as much as you used to, and you'll have a somewhat beneficial attitude.

This change suggests that an invisible wall is beginning to build between you and the other person. Increased physical and psychological distance can lead to the natural end of a relationship.

3. A holistic approach to understanding the loneliness of a breakup and making a fresh start

Liberation from "bad ties" may seem like a positive event at first glance. However, the process can be accompanied by mixed emotions such as loneliness, regret, and guilt, as well as feelings of joy and relief.

3.1. Accepting emotions as they are ~ Deepening self-understanding and releasing emotions

At the end of any relationship, there is a more or less emotional wave that surges over it. In particular, parting with someone you have been with for many years or with whom you felt a deep bond can be accompanied by great sadness and loss. Accepting these emotions as they are, rather than denying them or trying to suppress them forcibly, is crucial to making a fresh start.

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Promote self-dialogue By expressing your emotions in words, you can objectively grasp your emotions and deepen your understanding. It can be helpful to keep a journal or ask someone you trust to listen to you.

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Visualizing emotions and visualizing emotions by using words and pictures that represent emotions can help you control your emotions.

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It is important to release your emotions by crying as much as you can when you are sad and venting them in a safe place when you feel angry.

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Self-acceptance: No matter what emotions you have, accepting yourself for who you are and not blaming yourself is important for boosting your self-esteem.

Accepting your emotions as they are is the first step to a deeper understanding of yourself. By being close to your emotions instead of suppressing them, you can heal your emotional wounds and gain the energy to make a fresh start.

3.2. Learning from Past Relationships ~ Opportunities for Growth and Lessons for the Future

The "bad relationship" of the past may have been a painful experience for us. But there's a lot to learn from that experience. By reflecting on past relationships and analyzing why they turned out to be "bad relationships," you can deepen your self-understanding and learn lessons to avoid repeating the same mistakes.

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Analyze the relationship: Let's objectively analyze why the relationship became a "bad relationship" by looking back at specific events and emotions.

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Recognize self-responsibility: Look back not only on the words and actions of the other person, but also on yourself to see if there were any problems, and recognize the scope of your own responsibility.

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Pattern recognition: By looking back on past relationships and recognizing the patterns that you are prone to falling into, you can understand what you need to pay attention to in future relationships.

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Extracting Lessons Learned: Try to verbalize the lessons you have learned from your past experiences so that you can put them into practice in your future relationships.

Learning from past relationships is an important step in avoiding repeating the same mistakes. By using your past experiences as a source of growth, you will be able to build more mature relationships.

3.3. Welcoming new encounters ~ Opening the door to a positive future

After being freed from "bad relationships", it is important not to be afraid of new encounters and to actively accept them. New relationships bring us new perspectives and values, and are a force that promotes personal growth.

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Join a new community and expand your network by participating in activities that interest you.

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Self-disclosure - Actively disclose yourself to people you trust and build deep relationships.

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Positive interactions: Actively interact with people who give you positive energy to boost your self-esteem.

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Don't get caught up in the past, don't get caught up in past experiences, and embrace new encounters positively.

Welcoming new encounters will help you expand your own possibilities. New relationships will enrich your life and bring you new joy.

3.4. Take care of yourself ~ Increase your self-esteem and attract better relationships

After being free from "bad ties," it is important to take care of yourself first and foremost. If you can increase your self-esteem and recognize your self-worth, it will be easier to attract better relationships.

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Practice self-care: Get a good night's sleep, eat a balanced diet, and exercise moderately to keep your body and mind healthy.

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Improve your self-esteem - Find out what you are good about and actively praise yourself.

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Continue to grow yourself: Continue to grow by learning new things and improving your skills.

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Goal setting: Improve your self-esteem by clarifying your goals and taking action to achieve them.

Taking care of yourself is the foundation for better relationships. If your self-esteem increases, you will be able to identify the connections that are truly important to you, and you will be able to live a happier and more fulfilling life.

Summary ~ A new start and a journey to self-realization

"Bad relationships" hinder our growth and limit our possibilities in life. However, being free from "bad ties" is also a great opportunity to make a fresh start. Use the four precursors discussed in this article to reflect on your relationships and take the first step toward breaking free from unhealthy relationships.

Then, accept your emotions as they are, learn from your past experiences, welcome new encounters, and take care of yourself. In the process, you will be able to develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build more mature relationships, and move towards self-actualization.

We hope that this article will guide you on your way to a better future. I wholeheartedly support your life to be a shining one.

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965 Since childhood, he has been plagued by troubles, illnesses, and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena. However, one day at the age of 20, he participated in an event, had a strange experience at the venue, and received a lightning energy from heaven that seemed to pierce his brain and his spinal cord, and his psychic abilities blossomed. After that, he started researching psychology and psychic powers, and now he has combined psychic abilities and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics Exorcism" with his own radionics technique. Beyond exorcism, memorial services, and healing, "it is possible to cure luck"