2025.04.13

On a journey to find true love in your own way ~ Tips to attract happy encounters!

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"Someday, I want to meet someone I can love with all my heart."

"Someday, I want to meet someone I can love with all my heart."

If you wish so, you're not alone. An irreplaceable love that colors your life. It may be a word that has a special resonance for us women.

But don't be impatient. Genuine love is never something that comes in a hurry. It's like a wine that's aged slowly, and it's nurtured over time.

Here are some step-by-step tips on how to help you meet "real love" and build a happy relationship.

Jun

I want to meet someone I can love with all my heart.

Step 1・First of all, take time to face yourself deeply

Have you ever heard the saying, "If you can't love yourself, you can't love others"? This is a very important truth in love. Start by understanding yourself deeply and filling yourself with love.

Embark on a journey of self-discovery

When do you feel excited? What do you enjoy most when you're doing something? Is there anything you've loved since you were a kid or something you've always wanted to do?
Reflect on your past experiences and have a dialogue with your mind. By clarifying what you like, what you're good at, and what values you hold dear, you'll have a clear picture of who you are.

Use past relationships as a source of growth

Do you have any regrets about past relationships that didn't work out? Painful experiences are not in vain.
"Why did I break up with that person at that time?" and "What could I have learned from that relationship?"
A sober analysis can teach you a lesson in not repeating the same mistakes. Use your past relationships as food for stepping up to the next one.

Create your own "instruction manual"

Your strengths and weaknesses, what you like, what you don't like, what you can't compromise, what values you cherish... Write it down in words, as if you were creating your own "instruction manual".
Understanding yourself is the first step to boosting your self-esteem and becoming more confident in your relationship.

Clarify who you want to be

What kind of self do you want to be? Do you shine at work? Do you care about your family? Are you able to make people around you smile?
By concretely imagining what you want to become, your daily actions and choices will change. It will bring out your charm even more and attract wonderful encounters.

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I'm a wonder, so I need an explanation

Step 2・Open the door to encounters and expand the world

Once you have a deep understanding of yourself, it's time to open the door to dating. If you just sit still at home, you won't be able to meet wonderful people.

Actively go to the "meeting place"

Do you spend your days just shuttling back and forth between work and home? Be more proactive and go to new places.
Cafes, bars, events, hobby circles, volunteer activities... In places that interest you, there will surely be people who are on the same wavelength as you.

Take advantage of the online world

Some people may be reluctant to say, "Dating apps are a little ...". However, if you use it while paying attention to safety, you can efficiently increase your chances of meeting people.
Make sure you have a good profile and actively look for people who share your interests or share similar values.

Expand your circle of friends and ask for referrals

Tell your friends around you that you want a girlfriend. Because they know you well, they may be able to introduce you to the right person for you.
If you meet through a friend's introduction, it also gives you a sense of security that you have a mutual acquaintance.

From "passive" to "outgoing"

Let's shift from a passive attitude of "waiting for a nice person to appear" to a communicative attitude of "actively seeking encounters on your own".
By taking a proactive approach, your "encounter antenna" will become more responsive.

Midori

I have a lot of friends and a lot of encounters. I will do my best. smile

Step 3 ・ The magic of nurturing encounters into "love"

Once you've attracted a wonderful encounter, it's your turn to nurture that encounter into love. Don't rush, take your time, and deepen your relationship.

Make a first impression

The impression you make at the first meeting will greatly affect the relationship that follows. Dress cleanly, smile, speak cheerfully, and use polite language.
It is important to make a good impression that makes people think, "I want to see this person again."

"Good listeners" are popular!

Don't just talk about yourself, but try to listen carefully to what the other person has to say. By listening to the other person's words and showing empathy while wrestling, they will open up to you.
You can liven up the conversation by asking questions about what the other person likes and is interested in.

Find common ground and deepen intimacy

Finding common ground is the magic of bringing two people closer together. Favorite music, movies, travel, food... If you can find common ground, the conversation will naturally spark and create a sense of familiarity.
If you have common hobbies, having fun together can help strengthen the bond between the two of you.

Show "who you are"

You don't have to force yourself to stretch yourself to "look good". By exposing yourself as you are, the other person will feel safe and show their true selves.

It is precisely because you are unadorned that the other person is attracted to you.

Take your time and nurture the relationship

You don't have to rush to become a lover as soon as you meet. First of all, let's slowly deepen the relationship as friends.
Understanding each other well and building trust is the key to developing a long-lasting love.

Oguri

I would like to increase the love deviation value even more. smile

Step 4・What is true love?

What exactly is "real love"? It may take a different shape for each person. However, what they have in common is that they can connect with each other in a deep part of their hearts.

Mutual understanding and respect

It is important to understand and respect each other's values and ways of thinking. There may be times when you disagree, but it's important to try to understand the other person's feelings.
Acknowledging each other's independent personalities, "you are you, I am me," is the basis for building a good relationship.

Trust and peace of mind

A relationship in which you trust each other and feel safe and open to each other is the proof of true love. Try to communicate honestly without lying or hiding.
A person who can support each other in difficult times and give such a sense of security can be said to be a true partner.

A relationship where we can grow together

A relationship in which we can enhance each other and grow together is a form of love that lasts for a long time. A partner who acknowledges your weaknesses and encourages your growth is the right person for life.
It is very important to feel that "I can grow with this person."

Unconditional love

Unconditional love, not "I love you because you do something for me," but "I love you as you are," is what true love looks like.
It is important to have such a tolerant heart that you can love not only the good points but also the flaws of the other person.