2025.04.02

Love and Long-Distance Relationships ~ The Magic of Deeply Connected Communication

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It's okay, the love between the two of you will be stronger. Gentle tips for making a long-distance relationship come true

It's okay, the love between the two of you will be stronger. Gentle tips for making a long-distance relationship come true

"I can't see you when I want to" ~ That's a bit of a sad reality that haunts long-distance relationships. But you see, a long-distance relationship is not a test of love between two people, but rather a chance to develop a deeper, stronger, and loving relationship.

How can we walk this long road with a smile on our faces? In this article, we will give you some gentle and specific tips on how to make a long-distance relationship come true 。

Naomi

Last month, my boyfriend was transferred to a local job and I was tired, so I will read this article and refer to it. Thank you in advance.

1. The Magic of Communication ~ Warm Bonds That Connect Hearts

Even if you're far away, you feel like you're next to them. Let's create such a magical communication together.

1-1. Let's deliver daily "good morning" and "good night" and daily warmth

When you wake up in the morning, the first thing you need to do is say "good morning" messages. Say "good night" before going to sleep. Even if it's just one word, if it continues every day, the hearts of the two people will be firmly connected.

It's also nice to share small events, such as "This happened today." Let's deliver the warmth of everyday life to each other, as if we were exchanging diaries between two people.

1-2. Sharing smiles and talking face-to-face on video calls is an important time

When listening isn't enough, video calling is where video calls come in. The time spent talking while smiling at each other is a special treasure of all.

Things that made me happy, things that made me a little sad, things that happened today. By talking face-to-face, you can share subtle nuances and emotions that are difficult to convey with words alone. Sometimes, it's fun to eat together or watch a movie together. Even if they are far apart, sharing the same time will bring them closer together.

1-3. The Magic of Messages

Messages with thoughts in words are a strong ally in long-distance relationships. You don't have to worry about time or place, and you can convey your thoughts at any time. Try to put into words what you feel in your daily life, such as "I drank your favorite latte today" or "When I listen to this song, I always think of you." Please make good use of emojis and stickers to make your message more fun and cute.

1-4. Small surprises, exciting little gifts

From time to time, why not surprise them with a small gift? Letters, sweets, little accessories. It doesn't matter what. The important thing is to deliver your "feelings".

Just imagining the happy look on his face when he receives the gift warms my heart.

2. Wrap the bond of trust and doubt in love

Because we are far apart, it is important to believe in the other person. Doubts create a wall between the two of you. With a strong bond of trust, let's wrap our anxieties in love.

2-1. Use honest words and convey honest feelings

Feelings of anxiety, loneliness, and haze. Don't keep it in your mind, but be honest with it.

Sometimes putting it into words can make you feel better. Besides, understanding each other's feelings will deepen the bond between the two of you. Don't think, "No matter what I say, they won't understand." Tell him how you feel.

2-2. The strength of believing, not doubting his words

Believe what he said. Doubts erode their relationship.

"Is that really the case?" or "Maybe I'm lying?" Sometimes you may feel suspicious like that. But in such a case, try to remember the strength of believing in him.

2-3. Be sure to keep your promises and build a relationship of trust

Be sure to keep the promises you made between the two of you, such as "I'll call you at 00 o'clock" or "I'll go see you on XX day."

By keeping small promises, trust is built little by little. Breaking a promise is an act that hurts the other person. Trust is an indispensable foundation for maintaining a long-distance relationship.

2-4. Let's express gratitude and magic words to nurture love

"Thank you for everything" and "I'm always encouraged by your words" Let's express our gratitude on a daily basis in words.

Words of gratitude are like magic. It warms the hearts of both of you and nurtures your love. Expressing gratitude may seem like a no-brainer. However, taking care of the obvious will make your relationship better.

Jun

I'm clumsy in the way I convey my feelings, so it's helpful

3. Let's look forward to the day when we can meet and create a special time

The time you can see each other is the most important treasure in a long-distance relationship. Count down the days you get together and get ready to make the most of each day.

3-1. Let's make the next plan and share the fun

"When can I see you next?" or "Where are we going?" Planning for your next date can be a great motivator to get over a long-distance relationship.

Talk about where you want to go, what you want to do, what you want to eat, and share the "fun" of the two of you.

3-2. Cherish the time you can meet and make the time for the two of you intensely

The time you get to see each other flies by. While you're meeting, forget about everything else and spend your time together.

It's also a good idea to dress up a little more than usual and wear a perfume with his favorite scent. It's also nice to enjoy things together that you can't usually do.

3-3. Let's incorporate surprises, excitement and excitement

To avoid going on the same date every time, try to include a surprise from time to time.

Prepare a handmade gift or make a reservation at a slightly more luxurious restaurant. Surprises add excitement and excitement to your relationship.

3-4. Let's visit each other's places and expand the world of the two of us

If the time and convenience allow, it is also recommended to visit each other's places.

Walking around the city where he lives and introducing you to your favorite places will expand your world together. Let's share the experience that can be done because of the long distance.

Jesse

I act on a whim, so I want him to take the lead at a long distance ~ I wonder if it's selfish

4. Tips for enjoying a long-distance relationship, the magic of deepening the bond between two people

Long-distance relationships don't always have to be hard. There are many magical opportunities hidden to deepen the bond between the two of you and develop a greater love.

4-1. Let's have the same goals and envision the future together

"In the future, I want to do 〇〇 together" ・ "Let's go to 〇〇 together someday" Let's talk about the future of the two of you.

Having the same goal can be a strong driving force to overcome a long-distance relationship. A long-distance relationship is not the goal. It is an important process for the two of us to build the future together.

4-2. Respect each other's hobbies and recognize each other's individuality

Respect and understand each other's hobbies.

What he likes, what you like. By acknowledging each other's individuality, you can build a better relationship. Sometimes, it's good to enjoy a hobby together.

4-3. Try to think positively and overcome difficulties with a smile

Long-distance relationships tend to be negative emotions.
You may feel that it is painful not to see you or that you are lonely. But that's when you should try to think positively.

Let's overcome difficulties with a positive mindset and encourage each other.

4-4. Let's find the joy unique to a long-distance relationship and nurture the love between two people

They exchanged letters and sent each other local specialties.

Let's find a special way to enjoy it that can only be done in a long-distance relationship.

A long-distance relationship is a chance to weave a special story just for the two of you.

Midori

It's a wonderful thing to enjoy a long-distance relationship. I also take good care of my boyfriend.

5. The foundation for taking care of yourself and cultivating love

When you're in a long-distance relationship, you tend to prioritize him. But take care of yourself.

Taking care of yourself will give you more space in your mind and make your relationship with him better.

5-1. Make the most of your time and devote yourself to your hobbies and goals

Make the most of your alone time and dedicate yourself to your hobbies and goals.

Spending time enjoying the things you love enriches your mind and brings you positive feelings. Even if you can't see him, consider it an important time to grow yourself.

5-2. Don't accumulate stress and work your mind and body

Long-distance relationships can be stressful. Let's refresh moderately and work on the mind and body.

Take a relaxing bath, listen to your favorite music, and eat delicious food. Find your own way to relieve stress and stay physically and mentally healthy.

5-3. Talk to someone you trust and don't have to deal with it alone

If you're having a hard time, don't go through it alone, talk to a trusted friend or family member. Just having someone to listen to can make you feel better. You are not alone. It is also important to rely on the people around you.

Oguri

I know long-distance relationships are hard, but let's get over it and be happy.

Conclusion - Their love will surely bear fruit

Long-distance relationships are never an easy path. At times, you may feel overwhelmed by anxiety and loneliness. However, their love has a strong power that can overcome any difficulty. Cultivate your love by believing, supporting, and respecting each other.

There is a great future ahead of us. I sincerely support your love to bear fruit.

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