2025.04.02

How to build a comfortable relationship with a man

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When you hear "getting along well with men," you may feel that it is a little difficult. But it's never about "fitting in" or "putting up with men." Instead, it's about building a warm relationship where we can cherish and respect each other. It's like two puzzles that fit together perfectly, and it's a relationship that communicates with each other.

The first step is for us to take care of ourselves. If you can love yourself, you will surely be able to take care of others in the same way. Also, the most important thing is to be able to be yourself, not to force yourself to fit in with the other person.

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To cultivate a pleasant relationship

To cultivate a pleasant relationship

Donbei

Akane needs the information ~ I will read it for fun. smile

1. Communication ~ Connecting with words and hearts

Communication is an important bridge for people to communicate with each other. In order to build a warm relationship with a man, it is important not only to use words, but also to express expressions, attitudes, and heartfelt exchanges.

The magic of words ~ Convey "properly"

There may be times when women want to be understood even if they don't put it into words. However, men often have a hard time noticing if they don't get it communicated in words. So, if you have something to say, don't hesitate to put it into words. It should be easier for the other person to understand if you specifically say, "I was a little tired because I had XX today" instead of "I'm tired today."

Say "thank you" and "I love you"

If you are happy about something, say "Thank you," and if you find a nice place, say "It's wonderful." Words of gratitude warm the other person's heart, as if by magic. For example, try expressing your honest feelings by saying, "Thank you for always listening to me" or "I love that smile."

Convey your feelings "gently"

If you feel sad or a little dissatisfied, take a deep breath and talk calmly instead of expressing it emotionally. Rather than blaming the other person, saying, "Why is it always like that?", It should be easier for the other person to convey your feelings by saying, "I wanted you to do this when I was XX".

Ask them, "Hey, what do you think?"

If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. By asking questions, you can convey to the other person that you want to know about them, and the conversation will be more enjoyable. For example, "What do you think about XX?" or "Can you tell me a little more about that?" Let's ask with interest.

Share your feelings, "Me too."

Try to convey your thoughts and feelings to the other person. Of course, it would be wonderful if we could have a fun exchange of opinions that would make each other think, "I see!" while respecting the opinions of the other person. For example, "This is what I think about XX, but what about you?" and listen to the other person's opinion while expressing your feelings.

Oguri

Recently, I have not had enough words, and I regret it. I'm sorry for my boyfriend

It's not just words, it's a sign of the heart

"Hello" with a smile ~ A smile conveys a sense of security and "happiness" to the other person. When you're listening, smile from time to time and let them know you're interested in what they're saying. On the other hand, a grumpy face or expressionless may make the other person feel a little uneasy. Try to smile as much as possible.

Let's "look into the eyes" and talk

Talking to them with their eyes is a great way to show that they're listening to you. Of course, if you keep staring at them for a long time, they may get a little nervous, so make gentle eye contact as you talk.

Listen "with the whole body"

A sloppy posture may make the other person think, "Are you not listening?" By standing tall and facing the other person to listen, you can tell the other person that you are interested in what they have to say.

Let's also use "gestures"

When you're interested in what the other person is saying, lean forward a little, wrestle with them, and listen to them with your whole body. Try to refrain from a slightly defensive attitude, such as crossing your arms or legs, as this may make the other person wary.

"Tone of voice" is also important

The tone of voice, like music, is very important for conveying emotion. By speaking in a calm and gentle tone, you can convey a sense of security to the other person. Also, speaking too quickly and in a hurried manner may tire the other person, so try to speak slowly and in a gentle voice.

I like men's "slight" differences, straight ones

Men often prefer to say things in a straightforward way rather than in a roundabout way. Rather than guessing, "Maybe this is what you mean?", it may be easier for the other person to understand if you clearly say, "I want you to do something."

forest

Men don't understand women's psychology very well, so it's easier to understand if you talk to them straight. smile

I want to know the conclusion

Sometimes men want to know the conclusion in a conversation. If the story is too long or you can't see the conclusion, you may get a little bored. If you say, "I'm talking about XX, but the conclusion is ...", and then tell the conclusion first, it may be easier for the other person to hear.

I'm not good at expressing my emotions

Some men may not be very good at expressing their emotions in words. Don't think, "I don't have feelings because I don't say it in words," but accept it with a gentle feeling, saying, "I'm sure you think so."

I want to think logically

Men may prefer to think logically rather than emotionally. Instead of just speaking emotionally, it may be a good idea to explain logically, "This is why I think this way."

Cherish your pride

Many men may value their pride. Avoid warning or criticizing them in public, and listen to them gently. It is also important to choose your words so as not to hurt the other person's self-esteem.

Jun

Men are simple, but that's what makes them cute!

2. Turning differences into "treasures" ~ Mutual respect

Because men and women are different, understanding and respecting each other's differences is an important key to building a wonderful relationship.

The difference in values is interesting! Thoughts on work

Men may be more likely to find fulfillment in their work. However, there are many women who want to value the balance between work and private life. By understanding and respecting each other's feelings about work, you should be able to build a better relationship.

How to spend money

Many men may be a little excited if they have something they want. However, many women want to cherish their savings for the future. It is important to understand and respect each other's financial sense 。

Bonding with family

Men may be more likely to value their own families. However, many women want to cherish the bond they have with their parents and siblings. By understanding and respecting each other's views on family, you will be able to build a deeper relationship.

The "compass" of life

Men may be more likely to take pleasure in achieving their goals. However, many women may value connecting with the people around them and feeling happy. It is important to understand and respect each other's outlook on life.

Interests and concerns are each other's "doors"

My hobby is nourishing my mind

Many men may like sports and games, or they may be interested in cars. However, women have various hobbies, such as fashion, beauty, and music. By understanding and respecting each other's hobbies, you will be able to expand your conversations and become more intimate. If you find a common hobby that you enjoy together, you may have a more enjoyable time.

"What I like" is the energy of the mind

Men may be more likely to enjoy spending time alone. However, many women enjoy spending time with others. It is important to understand and respect each other's "likes". By knowing what the other person likes and having fun together, you will be able to connect with each other's hearts even more.

"Spice" of conversation

Men may like to talk about work, news, or hobbies. But women like to talk about relationships, emotions, and everyday events. By understanding each other's "favorite topics" and balancing the conversation, you should be able to have a more enjoyable time.

Let's respect each "pace" ~ The "speed" of love

Some men may think of the development of a relationship in terms of a slightly sexual relationship. However, many women value emotional connection and a sense of security. It is important to respect each other's pace and slowly develop love.

"When" to decide

Men may often make decisions relatively quickly. However, women often want to think carefully before making a decision. Respect each other's pace and listen carefully to each other's opinions before making decisions together.

Oguri

Men are strange animals, I'm a selfish girl lol.

3. Valuing "I" ~ Let's build an independent relationship

In order to build a comfortable relationship, it is important to be independent of each other. Let's take care of ourselves so that we can stand firmly on our own instead of depending on someone else.

The mind is "strong and supple"

Train your mind to control your emotions and stay calm at all times. Instead of being overwhelmed by the other person's words and actions, try to take it with a little leeway, saying, "Well, that's what happens." When you're having a hard time or feeling sad, don't force yourself to go through it alone, but talk to a trusted friend or family member.

「 Let's walk on our own feet

Earning your own money and becoming financially independent will also lead to a sense of relaxation. Financial independence should also lead to spiritual independence, which should allow you to build a more equal relationship.

Let's make "my voice" heard

Don't be swayed by the opinions of those around you, but value your own thoughts and opinions. Being able to express your opinion clearly is very important in gaining the trust of others. It would be wonderful if you could not only assert your own opinion, but also respect the other person's opinion and have a constructive discussion.

Let's enjoy the "time" alone

Enjoying alone time is an important time to take care of yourself. Immerse yourself in a hobby or do something you love to refresh your mind and body. People who enjoy alone time will surely look attractive to those around them.

4. Sometimes "let me be spoiled"

It is important to be dependent and independent, but sometimes it is also very important to be indulgent and dependent on others. Men are often happy when women rely on them because they feel that they are needed.

Let's "show" weakness

It's okay if you don't try to be perfect all the time. When you are having a hard time or feeling sad, try to confide in the other person honestly. Showing weakness is never something to be ashamed of. Showing vulnerability should bring the two of you closer together.

Let's do "Please"

When you are in trouble, don't hesitate to rely on the other person. By being relied on, the other person should feel happy that "I am helping you." Of course, don't rely on everything, but do what you can do on your own.

Let's be a "spoiled boy"

Once in a while, try to be selfish or indulgent. By being spoiled, the other person will think that you are cute and will deepen their love for you. Just don't be too indulgent. Try to indulge in moderation so as not to be a burden on the other person.

eyebrow

I see, I see, Mayu has a strategy to captivate her boyfriend. Ufufu

5. Let's improve "ourselves" ~ Take care of your mind and body

In order to build a comfortable relationship, it is important that you are first satisfied with yourself. Because you take care of yourself, you can also take care of others.

Make yourself "sparkly"

Try to dress cleanly and look "nice" on the outside, and enjoy fashion that suits you. Get creative with your makeup and hairstyle to make yourself look even more wonderful.

Enriching the inner world

Expand your world by studying a field that interests you or trying something new. Read books and watch movies to gain knowledge and culture. Let's value communication with people and come into contact with various values.

Your body will also be "healthy"

Try to eat a balanced diet and exercise moderately. Get enough sleep to give your mind and body a rest.

Let's relieve stress "softly"

If you feel stressed, try to relieve it as soon as possible. Find a stress relief method that works for you and put it into practice. Enjoy a hobby, talk to friends, go on a trip, and try different ways.

flower

I'm originally a sparkly girl, but I want to improve myself more and be loved by my boyfriend ~ I'll do my best lol

Summary: A relationship that connects with hearts and minds

In order for a woman to get along well with a man, it is important to first take care of herself and build an independent relationship. On top of that, it is important to respect and understand each other, and to communicate warmly. And sometimes being indulgent or dependent can be the spice for building a good relationship.

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